For many in our society conception is not guaranteed, leaving many women, men and couples bereft, sad and disappointed. Likewise with pregnancy, the mother embraces a fragile process and begins a journey into an unknown, unsure and often difficult wait including enduring morning sickness. So many questions, Will the baby reach full term? Will the baby be alright? Will the mother be alright? Will there be complications? , Will I eat the right things? Will the father be supportive? Will it be a boy or girl? <\/p>\n
Is life just one big agnostic advent? Most of us wouldn\u2019t claim to know what the future will bring and so in life we embrace a not-knowing way of being. There is so much we don\u2019t know? So many things we can\u2019t be sure of \u2013 there are no guarantees!! We don\u2019t know what the future holds, we can\u2019t be sure of outcomes? We can\u2019t guarantee that we will make the right choices or that we will be happy? We can\u2019t prevent struggles and difficulties entering into our life.<\/p>\n
And so back to Mary, How was she to prepare herself for this new life? She carried this life within her, fusing feeling full with being uncomfortable. Her life was no longer just hers; she was protecting the fragile new life within. The tension between it\u2019s vulnerability with her anxiety. It is meant to be a boy \u2013 what if it is a girl? Her life would never be the same again \u2013 would the child be alright? Would he and she survive the birth? (it wouldn\u2019t be uncommon) What would the child look like? How would he change her? How would she cope with looking after a baby, would she be good enough? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
For many in our society conception is not guaranteed, leaving many women, men and couples bereft, sad and disappointed. Likewise with pregnancy, the mother embraces a fragile process and begins a journey into an unknown, unsure and often difficult wait … Continue reading